I've fallen into the trap of the perfect LDS wife. Not pretty/thin enough, not a clean enough house, not making enough money, not being as spiritual as I should be. If one word describes how I feel right now, it would be inadequate. Sometimes setting goals can make you feel pretty rotten.
Just thought I'd put that out there.
DO NOT feel inadequate! You are so wonderful and have so many talents. You are so amazing I hate to know you feel like this! I know what it feels like though, I feel the same way so I'm not gonna tell you it gets better. Keep your head up and keep doing what your are doing! Love ya!
ReplyDeleteBut then think of all the amazing things you do...and all the ways you are in fact a good wife. No one is perfect and most of the time those that seem "perfect" are far from it. You are happy and so is your husband! That is important. There will always be ways to become better.
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